Adopting a Philosophy of Relentless Optimism
“The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty.” – Winston Churchill
What’s your philosophy for approaching challenges, dreams, and everyday problems? Perhaps you resonate with one of these common perspectives:
· Go with the flow
· Everything happens for a reason
· Live in the moment
· Take responsibility
· Focus on what you can control
But have you ever considered adopting an “Everything is Figureoutable” philosophy? Unless you’re already familiar with entrepreneur and author Mario Forleo, this philosophy might be new to you.
Marie learned this empowering mantra from her mother, who, despite having no formal training, could tackle any problem – from fixing household appliances to repairing the roof. When asked how she managed to do so many things she’d never done before, her mom replied, “Nothing in life is that complicated. You can do whatever you set your mind to if you just roll up your sleeves, get in there, and do it. Everything is figureoutable.”
This belief became the foundation of Marie’s success that carried her from a 23-year-old with big dreams to a multi-million-dollar entrepreneur. She shares her journey in her New York Times Best-Selling book Everything is Figureoutable.
Here are some key takeaways about this mindset:
The Three Rules of Relentless Optimism
All problems (or dreams) are figureoutable.
If a problem isn’t figureoutable, it’s not a problem; it’s a fact of life or law of nature (e.g., gravity, death).
You may not care enough to figure it out. And that’s okay! Focus on what truly matters to you.
These rules free us from the paralysis of doubt and indecision. They remind us that the power to create change lies within us—if we’re willing to put in the effort.
Eliminate Excuses
Excuses are dream killers. Marie addresses three common ones:
“I don’t have the time.” It’s not about having time; it’s about making time. Free up two hours a day by auditing your schedule and prioritizing what matters.
“I don’t have the money.” Resourcefulness, not resources, is the key to solving financial challenges. Creative problem-solving often leads to unexpected opportunities.
“I don’t know how or where to start.” Start before you’re ready. Clarity comes from engagement, not thought. Take one small action and let momentum build.
Fear: Your GPS for Growth
Fear isn’t the enemy; it’s a guide. Marie redefines fear as “False Evidence Appearing Real” or “Face Everything and Rise.” Instead of avoiding fear, embrace it. Action metabolizes fear and transforms it into courage. Write down your worst-case scenarios, then flip the script to imagine the best outcomes. Often, fear points to the areas of life where your soul most wants to grow.
Start Before You’re Ready
“Action spawns courage, not the other way around.” You’ll never feel fully prepared for the big leaps in life. Waiting for the “right” time or more confidence only delays progress. By taking action, even imperfectly, you’ll generate the courage and clarity you need.
Progress, Not Perfection
Perfectionism is a trap that keeps us stuck. Instead, focus on progress. Starting small and messy is better than staying stuck in indecision. A so-called “flop” might be a cosmic redirect, guiding you toward something even better.
Define Your Dreams
Clarity about what you want is the first step toward achieving it. Use tools like journaling prompts (e.g., “What I really want is…”) to uncover your deepest desires. Write down your goals; studies show you’re 42% more likely to achieve them if they’re written.
Why the World Needs Your Gifts
Even if your ideas have been shared before, your unique voice and perspective can make a difference. As Marie says, “You are here for a reason. The world needs that special gift that only you have.”
By embracing relentless optimism and the belief that “everything is figureoutable,” you’ll not only create a life you love but also inspire others to do the same.
So, what problem or dream will you figure out today? Remember, everything is figureoutable.